Matchmaking Tidepool™ Memberships

Most dating services invite you into a “pool” — crowded, chlorinated, anonymous. It’s loud. It’s exhausting. And it often feels like no one is really looking.

We don’t have a pool. We have a tidepool.

A Matchmaking Tidepool™ is small, intentional, and alive shaped by natural rhythms and full of possibility. It’s a temporary, sacred space where real connection can take root.

In our Matchmaking Tidepool™, everyone is seen. As people find their match and step out, the ecosystem shifts making space for others. The tide comes in, the tide goes out, and our community evolves with it.

Tidepool Membership Tiers

Evergreen Member
$2.06
Every month

A quiet way to stay present in the Tidepool. Ideal for those who aren’t actively seeking but want to remain visible. Monthly only; not eligible for packages or refunds. No discounts or additional perks. See refund policy for more information.


✓ Optional intake session available at a paid rate
✓ Included in monthly members-only email
Gem Member
$9.86
Every month
$56.22
Every 6 months

A more intentional tier for those actively hoping to connect. You’ll be reviewed with higher priority and receive access to tools that help you refine your dating journey. Eligible for prorated refunds with package plans. See refund policy for more information.


✓ Optional intake session available at a paid rate
✓ Included in monthly members-only email
✓ 20% off all profile services (excluding photography)
Cascade Member
$5.03
Every month
$28.68
Every 6 months

A modest show of support and openness to connection. You’ll be reviewed for alignment as matches are built and considered as part of our broader community ecosystem. No discounts or referral perks. See refund policy for more details.


✓ Eligible for prorated refunds with package plans
✓ Optional intake session available at a paid rate
✓ Included in monthly members-only email
Chai Member
$18.00
Every month
$108.00
Every 6 months

A sustaining tier for those who believe in Jewish love and want to help others find it too. You’ll receive our deepest engagement and support our broader matchmaking and community-building mission. Eligible for prorated refunds with package plans (see refund policy).


✓ Included in monthly members-only email
✓ Free 50-minute intake session with 6-month or yearly plan
✓ 20% off all profile services (excluding photography)
✓ Personal referral code offering 1 free month (up to 10)
✓ Top priority in match reviews

Why We Use a Tiered Support Model

At Ahava Northwest, your membership tier does not reflect your worth, attractiveness, or relationship potential. Everyone in our Matchmaking Tidepool is considered for potential matches, no matter the level of financial contribution.

Your support helps fund so much more than matchmaking — it helps us build a community rooted in the full meaning of Ahava: love in all its forms — romantic, spiritual, communal, and embodied.

By joining us, you’re helping to:

  • Sustain personalized, human-centered matchmaking

  • Compensate our team with fair, livable wages

  • Expand outreach into rural areas and smaller Jewish communities across the Northwest

  • Host inclusive spaces and events for singles to explore connection, not just dating

  • Elevate Jewish conversations around love, sexuality, intimacy, and selfhood

  • Subsidize access for those who may not otherwise be able to participate

Ensure that Jewish connection, belonging, and love remain a visible and joyful part of Northwest Jewish life for years to come