Join our Free Jewish Singles Matchmaking Database

Getting started is simple. You can apply for matchmaking and join our database for free by filling out the form above.

Before anyone is activated for matching, we meet with each prospective member one-on-one. This helps us get to know you, ask more detailed questions, and ensure that everyone in our community is a real person.

After your introductory call, you can decide whether and when you’d like to join one of our optional monthly community support memberships.

We believe in “big tent” Judaism where if you are Jewish by heritage, ethnicity, or religious practice we welcome you. This includes patrilineal Jews, converts, and cultural Jews.

We primarily specialize in matching those whose Judaism falls outside of stricter Torah-Observant frameworks. However if you are of this background or this is what you are seeking in a partner, we will still happily have you as a member and can also refer you to a matchmaker who specializes in this area of Jewish matchmaking.

Yes! We have members who are part of the LGBTQ+ community and we are looking for more members in these demographics to match.

Our primary service area includes Oregon, Washington, Northern California, and British Columbia.

We also work with people who live west of these regions or who are open to relocation or travel within the broader West. Location and logistics are discussed during the intake call and considered carefully for every match.

No. While our strongest presence is in Portland, Seattle, the Bay Area, and Vancouver, we also work with Jewish singles across the broader Northwest and Western region.

Location and logistics are discussed during the intake call and considered carefully for every introduction.

No.
We specifically want Ahava Northwest to be a nonpartisan organization that serves all Jews in our service area looking for a potential match. We want to match people whose lifestyles and values align.

We ask questions in our intake session around Zionism and political beliefs as well as lifestyle questions not to judge but to ensure we only send well-aligned potential matches.

Traditional matchmaking often involves expensive contracts and fixed commitments. We intentionally do things differently.

You can apply and remain in our database for free. We offer optional sliding-scale monthly community support memberships for those who want to support the ongoing work of matchmaking and community growth.

Membership is not tied to guaranteed matches or dates. Instead, it helps sustain the service so that we can continue recruiting new members, reviewing profiles, and making thoughtful introductions over time.

You are always free to start, stop, or change your membership based on what feels right for you or contribute a one-time amount.

Ahava Northwest is a small startup that we currently run largely as a mitzvah and community service.

Monthly support helps cover basic operating costs, including:

• Website hosting and scheduling tools

• Administrative and bookkeeping software

• Outreach and community-building efforts

• Paying our employee who supports marketing and operations

Your support allows us to continue offering matchmaking and to grow the database so we can make better, more frequent matches over time.

No. We don’t guarantee a specific number of matches or dates.

We prioritize quality over quantity and focus on making intentional introductions rather than rushing or setting minimums.

We are actively growing our database, and new members join each week.

If we already have someone in mind who may be a good fit for you, we’ll let you know during your introductory call. If not, we’ll continue to consider you as new members join.

Matching timelines vary based on preferences, availability, and who is currently in the database. For some people, matches may come quickly; for others, it may take longer. As a growing startup, we want to be transparent that timelines can vary.

When we identify a potential match, we first share basic details and at least one photo with each person. If both parties say yes, we coordinate a first date.

We collect general availability and arrange a low-pressure first meeting at a convenient, affordable location for both people.

First dates are intentionally casual and we think 30 minutes can be enough time to get a sense of the other person (of course, as adults feel free to spend longer on a date). This keeps things low-stakes and makes it easier to say yes or no without obligation.

We don’t expect members to exchange personal contact information during the first three dates. After each date, feedback is shared directly with us. If interest is mutual, we’ll arrange the next date.

After the third date, if both people would like to continue, we exchange contact information and step back so you can take it from there.

We try to prioritize in-person first dates but depending on geography and availability virtual first dates may also be offered.

We don’t want finances to be a barrier to finding connection.

That’s why we offer optional sliding-scale community support levels at $5, $10, and $18 or a one-time custom amount. All levels receive the same access and consideration.

We also intentionally choose affordable first date locations and don’t expect anyone to spend more than about $10 on a beverage or treat. First dates are meant to be casual, comfortable, and low-pressure.